Picking a good hookup site is probably the most important first step. Throughout your fling adventures, you’ll notice that men outnumber women on every site you’ll be working with. Due to this ratio issue, women constantly get messaged by numerous guys, allowing them to weed out the undesirables quickly and ruthlessly. It’s therefore important to pick a fling site where the ratio works in your favor. We’ve done some of the footwork for you, but you can obviously pick any site that comes highly recommended by any close friend.

You’ll find both free and pay booty call sites. The most effective ones are the pay sites. Free sites have the unfortunate side effect of attracting a lot of riffraff. There are a lot of inactive profiles, fake profiles (guys posing as girls), etc… Pay sites such as SexSearch.com keep these time-wasting people at bay by showing only active profiles search in results and requiring paid membership for communication privileges. This greatly reduces fake or inaccurate profiles, as a credit card is required to use the service.

You should understand that expediting your time-to-hookup is worth a few dollars a month. There’s value in not having to deal with mind games people play in the regular online dating world (i.e.: I want to fuck you, but if I do now, I’ll feel like a slut, etc…).

So pick one, and pick wisely.

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